Often undiscussed, ectopic pregnancy is a form of child loss that needs understanding and awareness. Learn more here.
Have you suffered an ectopic pregnancy or know someone who has?
My deepest condolences go out to you for experiencing such a difficult time.
Do you feel like no-one truly understands what it’s like to have been through an ectopic pregnancy? As if no-one really gets what it means or what it feels like?
Do you feel totally heartbroken to have carried a baby but to then learn the pregnancy is ectopic and cannot continue?
Has the joy and excitement of conceiving turned into shock and numbness after discovering the pregnancy was ectopic?
Perhaps you wish that someone could just help you - reach out to you with understanding.
If this is you, then please pay close attention to my next few words, because we are here to help you.
Hi, my name is Hafizah Ismail.
I am the founder of Children of Jannah.
If you feel like no-one understands your pain, the grief you are going through, the mourning for your child and hopes and dreams, I can relate to that. My family suffered the devastating loss of a child and I know how traumatic that loss can be.
After the death of my nephew, I suspected that there were many parents out there consumed in their loss and with no-one to help them. Parents who have lost a child, people like you who have suffered an ectopic pregnancy and yet had nowhere to turn. But I didn’t know how to tackle this problem and provide them with the support and relief that they so desperately needed.
The media and all of my friends and community around me always said that grief was something personal, that people would get over it and that time heals all wounds. That it was better to leave bereaved parents alone to heal. Many people didn’t want to speak about ectopic pregnancy at all, as if not speaking about it meant it never happens. Others lack any understanding of what an ectopic pregnancy is which only leads to clumsy questions and insensitive comments. And there exist so many opinions and judgements about how we should treat parents who have suffered an ectopic pregnancy – but no real support or understanding.
For some women who suffer an ectopic pregnancy, because it can happen early in the pregnancy, they may not be aware they were expecting – but this doesn’t make the shock any easier to cope with. Ectopic pregnancy can also be dangerous and very painful – making your loss even harder to understand and process as your body deals with this. It can be shocking, devastating and an absolute storm of emotions that drain you. We know this and this is why we want to help you understand ectopic pregnancy and how you can learn to find life again after your tragic loss.
Over the next few minutes I’m going to reveal how we can help you and grieving parents just like you. You will discover that there is understanding out there and that you can believe in a life after your loss. I will show you how you can make that first step on your journey today.
The information I am going to share with you can change your life. It can give you a life again after the heartbreak of an ectopic pregnancy – a life that doesn’t forget your loss but a life that honours this.
This is something that you owe to yourself and to your child, to act upon now. Because for every moment that goes past without the right support in place for you, without someone to talk to who truly understands your ectopic pregnancy experience, is a moment too many where you don’t have the support you should have.
The pain you have suffered is awful and your heart has been shattered with a loss that seems very unfair, unexplained and unexpected. Your baby was your baby and this wasn’t ‘meant’ to happen. It hurts so much and you may be wondering “Why me?”
The pain you are feeling right now has another dimension though which you need to be aware of –so you need to take a minute to step back and consider:
What if this is a pain that doesn’t go away, or diminish? What will you do? A grief that you can’t process. A loss that you can never fully understand. Even though it may seem hard now, if you don’t take action now, if you don’t allow us to help you, reliving your loss continuously may be something that stays with you.
Introducing Our Understanding Ectopic Pregnancy Resources
Our Understanding Ectopic Pregnancy resources include videos, fact sheets, answers to frequently asked questions and real stories of real parents who have suffered an ectopic pregnancy. Our resourcesĀ are unique because we have taken the time to address this specific type of loss and to support people like you who have experienced it.
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At Children of Jannah, we see couples who have suffered a similar loss as yours. And we wanted to help by giving them the support and understanding that they need, in a way that is unique to the loss of an ectopic pregnancy. So we decided to take action and bring you these resources in one portal so that you can find what you need to have life after loss.
Understanding ectopic pregnancy isn’t easy but with our help, you can begin to find joy in life again and move beyond the pain. All you need to do is take the first step by clicking the button on this page to begin your journey of healing your broken heart.
I often get asked – “But what if you can’t help me?” And the truth is, that our resources and support have helped thousands of people. Many parents who have suffered a similar loss to you. And for each of these people who reach out to us, we reach back and we are with them. We empathise and we validate your experience and understand it. And we can be with you for as long as you need us to be.
I also get told “I don’t need to learn about it, I understand what happened.” But the reality is - do you understand fully? I know that you have felt the loss in such a raw, physical way but we want to help you process the accompanying grief too so that you can heal completely. Understanding what happened to you is so important in helping you to process this and process your emotions.
So please, do take advantage of our Understanding Ectopic Pregnancy resources by clicking the button on this page. This is the chance you need, this is what you have been looking for and that is why you are listening to me today.
If you want to be able to understand what has happened to you, the storm of emotions you are feeling right now and how to process and move through your grief, this is the time to take action.
If you are feeling hesitant, let me explain how we can help you and what we can offer:
Lifetime Access
You’ll have Lifetime Access to the Membership portal - meaning you can access the resources whenever and wherever you like
24/7 Availability
You'll get 24-hour access to the members area, 7 days a week on any device to have the piece of mind you crave.
Training Videos
You’ll get access to Training Videos on understanding ectopic pregnancy so that you can understand what this is.
Downloadable Factsheets
You’ll be able to download Factsheets on Understanding Ectopic Pregnancy, available to read at your convenience, in your time and when you are ready.
Real Stories
You can view real stories from real parents who have experienced ectopic pregnancy - this can help to break the feeling of isolation you may feeling and the lack of understanding and empathy that is felt by so many parents.
Private Forum
You’ll have access to a Private Parents Online Group with parents who have suffered a similar loss. This means you can get support from other parents from around the world in a similar situation to you.
Exclusive Community
Our exclusive community means you can get support from other parents from around the world in a similar situation to yours.
FAQs Hub
You'll be able to access our ever-increasing hub of FAQs, answered by scholars and specialists in the area of child bereavement.
And youā€™ll receive access to the latest ectopic pregnancy resources when they become available - giving you peace of mind that weā€™ve got your back and are here for you in the future to come.
Why are our resources so beneficial? Because we will speak openly to you about what it is like to have suffered an ectopic pregnancy, you won’t feel that you have to grieve in silence and alone.
We will help you to learn why some of the things you may be feeling or the things that may have been said to you are incorrect. We will also help you to learn about why people say some of the things that have been said to you.
And we will help you understand that you are a parent and that the grief you are feeling is normal, natural and that you can begin one day to have a life again after this tragic loss.
We have helped many, many people like you who tell us that we have helped them gain the strength to carry on, even when it seemed impossible at the time.
Our Understanding Ectopic Pregnancy resources will help you to understand what has happened to you. They will help you to learn about and share your grief without judgement and begin the journey of processing it.
And you will begin to find a way to get through your grief and grow around it, we can guarantee this.
Remember: this is something you owe to yourself and your child, this is what you need right now.
So click the button and take the first important step today.
Often undiscussed, ectopic pregnancy is a form of child loss that needs understanding and awareness. Learn more here.